My Father Left Our Family For Another Woman

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    Hello, this is Lisa, and for the last year, she’s been desperately trying to hold her family together until she realized that she wouldn’t succeed.
    One of Lisa’s earliest childhood memories is of going to a playground together with her parents. Nothing special happened, but for some reason, the joyful smiles of her parents that day stayed with her. It was a moment of pure happiness for all three of them.
    And this memory makes what happened to them later even worse.

    To cut a long story short, one day, after seventeen years of marriage, her father brought them together and, with tears in his eyes, told them that he was leaving Lisa’s mother for another woman. Well, how should you react to news like that? You think that everything is fine and your parents love each other and you get on with doing your own stuff, and then...this happens.
    She asked her father why, but the answer was quite obvious - he’d just fallen in love with another woman.
    And then he just, well...left. It was just Lisa and her mom crying. Their house seemed so empty and lifeless without him, and they both missed him.
    She tried to imagine how she would feel if her future husband ever left her like that after two decades of marriage. It’s really hard to imagine what to do next.

    After some time, her dad contacted her, and they met in a cafe. She thought that he wanted to come back. Maybe he had realized his mistakes, she thought, and it all was just a misunderstanding. She was wrong, of course. He just wanted to say that he still loved her and his leaving didn’t change things between them. Lisa begged him to reconsider and return to her mom, to think about it, to remember all the times they had together. He just smiled and said, “it’s not that simple.”
    Then he said that her mom was a strong woman and she would recover, and that Lisa needed to support her. But what about him, Lisa thought to herself. Wasn’t it his responsibility to support her, even if he was no longer in love with her? He then told her that he wanted Lisa and his girlfriend to meet at some point, because she was a good person and she would like her.
    He took her hand into his, and she just nodded silently. Maybe he was right. She didn’t want to lose her dad. She still loved him.

    It was hard to go home that day. Lisa’s mom was a shadow of her former self, not even bothering to brush her hair in the morning. It was hard seeing a person who you’ve looked up to your whole life like that. She felt like she hated her for being so weak.
    At one point, Lisa just snapped and told her mom that it was her fault that her dad had left. Her mom burst into tears and cried even more than before, and she felt horrible for saying it. She apologized at least ten times over the next half an hour.
    Her mom then started to reveal everything about their relationship, how it had became worse every year, and how she knew that this would probably happen eventually. She told her that she hated her dad and didn’t want to forgive him, but Lisa just couldn’t make herself agree with her, because she couldn’t hate her own father.

    Over the next few months, she tried to meet with her dad often, but each time the gap between their encounters grew a little bit longer. First one week, then two, then three. At one point, he called her by the name of his girlfriend’s daughter and didn’t even notice.
    At that moment Lisa realized what a big mistake she had been making the whole time. Instead of supporting her mom, she had been desperately trying to win back her father’s affection.
    He asked again if she was ready to meet with his girlfriend. And you know what? She said no. Because she didn’t want to meet her. Ever. And while she wanted to have a good relationship with her dad, it wasn’t him who was suffering most through this whole business - because at least he had a new partner, while there was just her and her mom in their old house.
    In the following weeks, she spent more time with her mom, trying to support her and take her mind off her dad. They became much closer.
    She finally found the courage to say to her dad that she didn’t want to meet his new girlfriend EVER. Yes, he was still family, but he wasn’t part of HER family anymore.
    Lisa is still very conflicted about the whole situation, but she’s glad to say that her mom looks and feels better nowadays. Last week she said that Lisa ought to stop thinking about it so much because she has to live HER OWN life. She had to study, have fun with her friends, maybe meet a guy, and not babysit her parents, because they were adults and they will manage.
    Lisa now thinks she was right. She hopes her mom will get better, and that she will manage to have a good relationship with her dad, but she also has to live her life and solve her own problems, while still supporting her mom, of course.
    Music by Epidemic Sound: www.epidemicsound.com
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  • ACTUALLY HAPPENED
    ACTUALLY HAPPENED  6 miesięcy temu +2275

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    • Susan Mburu
      Susan Mburu Miesiąc temu

      Sometimes life is just sad . l have never had a person to call my own dad

    • Elizabeth Brackett
      Elizabeth Brackett Miesiąc temu

      I don't know who made this but I feel you!!

    • Shahzad Akhtar
      Shahzad Akhtar Miesiąc temu

      C💞💞❣💟💟💟💟😍😍😍😙😙😙💝💝💝❣❣❣

    • Charmari Harmon
      Charmari Harmon Miesiąc temu

      I've been through something like that but it's different.

  • your local crackheaded mailman

    i'd break his neck

  • sanc_rel
    sanc_rel 17 godzin temu

    Do white ppl actually just leave a relationship just like that? Like wtf "I like someone else now"... Dafuq why ruin a child and woman's life just to leave them.. Fukin white ppl

  • Aish Jalo
    Aish Jalo Dzień temu

    My dad left my brothers and mum and i when we were little i feel like he left because of me as he was their for my brothers life and sometimes i would go to bed crying at night yet my mum still loves him i havent seen him for 11 years.

  • Monokuma is real
    Monokuma is real Dzień temu

    Happened to my girl, I understand you, but my father hide it and cheated like BOI WTF

  • Just Ice
    Just Ice Dzień temu

    She has blue hair ?????

  • Anupama Dinesh
    Anupama Dinesh 5 dni temu

    idiot my dad will never do that

  • Jasmeen Kaur
    Jasmeen Kaur 5 dni temu

    At least he didn't cheat on her mom

  • Milica Jovanovic
    Milica Jovanovic 8 dni temu

    Awww the end ez happy

  • Lisa And Margo
    Lisa And Margo 9 dni temu

    The same thing happened to me and I’m called Lisa Zhang

  • Ryan In Pieces
    Ryan In Pieces 10 dni temu

    What a “great” father.

  • Lynn lisa
    Lynn lisa 10 dni temu

    This is so weird. My name is lisa and the same thing happened to me. The only difference is that I hate my father and i haven't seen him for a long time

  • Isis Neal
    Isis Neal 10 dni temu

    This what actually happened to me like I was so sad

  • Declan Cee
    Declan Cee 10 dni temu

    Wtf was that vitch rlly born wit blue hair 😳

  • Mark's Toys Channel
    Mark's Toys Channel 11 dni temu

    3:14 did any body saw the WT!pF?

  • solar
    solar 11 dni temu

    Its called a divorce fucktard

  • solar
    solar 11 dni temu

    Yeah its called an affair duh

  • saul ibarra
    saul ibarra 12 dni temu

    How old are you all?

  • Roblox F.U.N.
    Roblox F.U.N. 14 dni temu

    2:43 lol her mom sprayed her with the hose

  • Priya Srivastava
    Priya Srivastava 14 dni temu +1

    All in all mom is a good person..... Now should find a job, date a nice guy and make daughter proud of her

  • t series
    t series 14 dni temu

    Yes I'm gamer to
    G. Game
    A. Apple
    M. Mouse
    E. Eat
    R. really

  • Manal Shoaib
    Manal Shoaib 15 dni temu

    Do ppl share their stories?

  • Dijedaffi Doofeyman
    Dijedaffi Doofeyman 15 dni temu

    Cute voice

  • Bearlover Burritolover
    Bearlover Burritolover 15 dni temu +1

    I have the same story but my mom left us

  • cross over
    cross over 16 dni temu

    Last year I saw the comments on this video and most of the comments was about how the art style looked like storybooth`s . This year I saw the comments again and it`s just talking about the story instead of the art style.

  • Brooklyn
    Brooklyn 17 dni temu

    ik what ur going through bc i went through it when i was 5

  • Skippi Skip Production LLC

    Marriage is a covenant, and if the love is lost, then parents should still stay together for the sake of the child and the commitment on the wedding day.

  • Yesenia Delgado
    Yesenia Delgado 18 dni temu

    That is not a loyal man

  • It's Jeff!
    It's Jeff! 19 dni temu

    Omg idc about this. Literally I have dad's. Can't blame me for mine. He left my man when I was 9 months old. Flew to Spain with his new gfriend and my step sis and lil bro when I was 3. Last present= I WAS 5!!! Last talk/call= MY 6TH BDAY! HE TALKED ABOUT HIS NEW CHICKENS AND EGGS!

  • IveBeenMemed - Gaming
    IveBeenMemed - Gaming 20 dni temu

    0:03
    elastigirl

  • Tabby Warren
    Tabby Warren 20 dni temu

    My parents got a divorce when I was 5 or 6 years old and I had to go to counseling for it because I was so upset and I understand why they got a divorce because they yelled at each other ALL the time and everyday I ended up crying in my room but somehow my brother wasn't as bothered by it. Now my dad is engaged and so is my mom and they seem happy but there are certain things I still wish were the same.

  • Sonic Buzzar
    Sonic Buzzar 20 dni temu

    Fakie

  • There 4 You
    There 4 You 21 dzień temu +1

    I don't Care if my dad finds another Woman I want him out of my Life Forever.

  • Quebits Tech
    Quebits Tech 21 dzień temu

    Now the thing is that, sure, he shouldn't have called her by his girlfriend's name, but honestly, it's his choice if he wants to stay with his wife or not. The fact that "they are a family" doesn't remove the father's rights on meeting someone else. This comment is gonna get so much hate, but hate if you hate I guess.

  • im a worm
    im a worm 21 dzień temu

    why does the mom low-key look like billie Ellish

  • Chrisanne Terry
    Chrisanne Terry 22 dni temu

    My mom and dad were together 4 only 11 years.I'm 8 and my brothers 5

  • Ashley Jeeyou Lee
    Ashley Jeeyou Lee 23 dni temu

    2:34 bitch, it’s not ur mom’s fault you ungrateful child. Ur dad probably cheated.

  • Ronny Thamer
    Ronny Thamer 24 dni temu

    I'm crying because my dad left us a family of 4 kids for another girl which I hated my whole life I am so relatable because my mum was crying and she was the one who did everything I feel you 😥😥😥😥😥

  • Max Nightmare
    Max Nightmare 24 dni temu

    I relate to this

  • Iva Rukavina
    Iva Rukavina 24 dni temu

    Hair dye is genetic?

  • Joel Clark
    Joel Clark 24 dni temu +1

    1 like=10000000000 kicks in the balls for that father

  • 4ever PoTAEto
    4ever PoTAEto 24 dni temu

    1:00-1:20 I suddenly cried... imagining my dad falling in love with another woman and leaving my mom and I together... me and my parents aren’t that close tho when I hit puberty, I started getting mad at them for no reason, started getting depressed and self harming. I used to be close with my dad but yea. We’re a little bit better now😊 I’m smiley againnnn at least in front of them
    *o my gosh* I got carried away sorry😂😂*

  • Josue E Santiago
    Josue E Santiago 25 dni temu +3

    I've. Gone through worse than any of these videos

  • Dikshya Sitoula
    Dikshya Sitoula 25 dni temu

    I'm facing the same this entire time and I can just brust into tears each night thinking about our happy family back then. I'm helpless my father doesn't want to leave me and my brother and my mom still looks upto him thinking he will love her back someday. I just feel shocked everytime I try remembering all of these😭😭

  • alicia reyna
    alicia reyna 25 dni temu

    Sad😰😱😭😫

  • Diego Jose Serrano Gonzalez

    You do not have to move in with that woman

  • Clair Sarmiento
    Clair Sarmiento 26 dni temu

    At your mom

  • Clair Sarmiento
    Clair Sarmiento 26 dni temu

    Try to be bad again

  • Lisa And Margo
    Lisa And Margo 27 dni temu

    Wait, wait, wait



    My names is LISA and my dad left my mum for another woman and he had 4 children I’m 😡

  • Harly Quinn
    Harly Quinn 27 dni temu

    😭😭😭 omg

  • Angelo Saavedra
    Angelo Saavedra 28 dni temu

    My dad cheated on my .mom too..,.. But my mom told me too not remember him and try to finish school

  • Amena Suratwala
    Amena Suratwala 29 dni temu +1

    This is exactly my story but . . . .
    He didn’t left us and everything is fine now🙃

  • Minerva Wolf
    Minerva Wolf Miesiąc temu

    The Dad in the video is a POS, and he is disgusting.

  • 37648 Lol
    37648 Lol Miesiąc temu

    Ok so, this happened to me. So my mother, brother, cousin, and father move out of our old house into a new apartment. I though of it as nothing since it was basically an upgrade and it was in the same town(I was about 4-5). When we moved into the apartment my dad wasn’t there, I didn’t question it but was confused. A few months later when my mom picked me up from school she had him on the phone explaining to me how he left our family for another woman. I was heartbroken. As a first grader I was torn and was so confused. My family was broken and every one was just distraught. Years pass, my family is happy with just my mom, brother, cousin, and myself. My did lived away supposedly giving my mom money. At times we would have no power and my mom had to figure out ways to keep up warm. Until summer 16 we lived in that apartment. Long story short we got evicted because the asshole forgot to pay up. We ended up moving to a whole different town and he decides he wants to be back in my life. I hate him. He tries to make decisions for me and he just ends up ruining my life more and more. I’m miserable with him in my life. Everything about him gets me angry like hearing his voice gets me so upset. I often have bursts of uncontrollable rage.

  • J
    J Miesiąc temu +1

    If polygamy marriage is acceptable this poor girl could have more normal life 🤔

  • Melishew Melishew
    Melishew Melishew Miesiąc temu

    Mine is the same like her

  • Somana Akter
    Somana Akter Miesiąc temu

    Bad dad

  • Wisline Deshommes
    Wisline Deshommes Miesiąc temu

    My name is Catalina I wearable
    My mom said to my sister to badyst me it was time for me to go to bed after that i was crying because I was scared that someone whod take me but now I no that noone would take me again it because my sister said that to me my mom hair is black my hair is black to my sister hair is black to again bye I love you.😊

  • Platano Man
    Platano Man Miesiąc temu

    This kid has dumb ideas.

  • Carolina Janda
    Carolina Janda Miesiąc temu

    why do you have blue hair

  • Mila Parker
    Mila Parker Miesiąc temu

    her eyebrows look like the NIKE logo

  • Jaxtr
    Jaxtr Miesiąc temu

    This story made me cry becouse this is just like how life went

  • Sillylilemogirl22
    Sillylilemogirl22 Miesiąc temu

    This is heartbreaking.... that poor mother...

  • HightRetardet Person On Youtube

    ACUALY HAPPEND

  • Zoe Skaggs
    Zoe Skaggs Miesiąc temu

    I really don't think you should leave your family, but we have to be grateful that he had the common sense to not cheat.

  • Shahiba Rozali
    Shahiba Rozali Miesiąc temu

    Ahahahaha 'she's a kind person'. What kind of nice person dated another women husband??

  • olivia perry
    olivia perry Miesiąc temu +1

    I didn't know blue hair was a family triat

  • Brieana Ai
    Brieana Ai Miesiąc temu

    A good person never interfers to other's marriage. Fucc ur dad

  • Isabelle _
    Isabelle _ Miesiąc temu

    This is why I don’t want to get married and gosh that dad lost everything

  • Chloe Duggan
    Chloe Duggan Miesiąc temu

    One like one dad is a but who agrees

  • Asliati Asril
    Asliati Asril Miesiąc temu

    My BFFs used me to do their school work:(

  • JEENN RINGGG
    JEENN RINGGG Miesiąc temu

    Mine the opposite

  • Its Allison
    Its Allison Miesiąc temu

    Not trying to be rude, but does it annoy you when she says Mum. ( No hate )

  • Bar abis
    Bar abis Miesiąc temu

    I can't stand it.!!!!!😢😭

  • Dj Humphries
    Dj Humphries Miesiąc temu +2

    I understand people changing their hearts but he legit just sat there and left his own

  • Shahzad Akhtar
    Shahzad Akhtar Miesiąc temu

    ☺☺"💟🕭🥕

  • ejay Rivera
    ejay Rivera Miesiąc temu

    My classmate told me she found out that her father didn't die from a crash and he died by suicide because his wife was cheating on him

  • Machinegun 6997
    Machinegun 6997 Miesiąc temu

    She should’ve said: “ I don’t wanna meet your whore”

  • Jebet Mwende
    Jebet Mwende Miesiąc temu

    Hit him

  • Sonic son bm _Chan_ :D Sonsonic

    One dislike = 99919292827288111,2828272 slaps for dad

  • Taniya Hill
    Taniya Hill Miesiąc temu

    Hey my name is Taniya and when this happened I was 10 years old and my dad leave us to be with a another woman

  • Sam Samson
    Sam Samson Miesiąc temu

    *Find solace by watching the NEW Netflix SHE-RA cartoon. Season 2 She-Ra trailer is out now, btw.*

  • Dionysia Makridi
    Dionysia Makridi Miesiąc temu +1

    I can understand you😔

  • Hawksfanboy11
    Hawksfanboy11 Miesiąc temu

    My dad the same

  • Snatched Sis
    Snatched Sis Miesiąc temu

    Lol relatable, My dad cheated on my mommy for 2 years tho ☺

  • Jake Maddox
    Jake Maddox Miesiąc temu

    How can people be naturally born wið blue hair?

  • Michelle Cooper
    Michelle Cooper Miesiąc temu

    This happened to me

  • amai mahou
    amai mahou Miesiąc temu

    "long story short,"
    *talks for 5 minutes*

  • David Henry
    David Henry Miesiąc temu

    That reminds me of my freind he hates his dad he left them and ended up starting a new family with kids he doesnt contact him in fact every one on his dads side doesnt contact him

  • 5amukai
    5amukai Miesiąc temu

    plot twist:the girlfriend was actually a boyfriend

  • mk Alqaissi
    mk Alqaissi Miesiąc temu

    SLAP UR DAD HE DONT DESERVE A BOOTYFUL GIRL LIKE U HONEY >:0

  • y z
    y z Miesiąc temu

    Your dad is a loser.

  • Anonymous Commenter
    Anonymous Commenter Miesiąc temu

    If he was my dad I woulda slap that thot across his face

  • Panda Boy
    Panda Boy Miesiąc temu

    If my father left us for another woman i will set on fire his house

  • Χρύσα Βι
    Χρύσα Βι Miesiąc temu

    I would have gone to meet the bitchy girlfriend and just grab her by the hair and spinning her untill she screams....SHE SHOULD NOT GET WITH A MAN THAT IS MARRIED AND HAS CHILDREN!!!!!WTF YOU BITCHHH...THAT DOESNT SHOW ANY KIND OF RESPECT TO THE POOR FAMILY...

  • immature nether
    immature nether Miesiąc temu

    lmao when her mom sprayed water at her face

  • Eric W
    Eric W Miesiąc temu

    :o

  • Melvin Salazar
    Melvin Salazar Miesiąc temu

    If my dad did that I would cry and push him out the door and say Bye go leave burn in a pit I will hate you for all eternity

  • Melvin Salazar
    Melvin Salazar Miesiąc temu

    One like equals one kick in thee balls for her dad and a slap and a punch and kick and a RKO

  • BTSarmy _Viv
    BTSarmy _Viv Miesiąc temu

    She fricking sounds like Peppa Pig😂