I Have a 6% Chance at Pregnancy

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  • Opublikowany 4 lis 2018
  • For the majority of couples, having your own child and sharing those special moments becoming a parent is the ultimate happiness. But what if you or your partner only had a 6% chance of having your own baby, what would you do and how far would you go to chase that happiness?
    To the majority of us, getting pregnant and having own child would bring the most joy and excitement. For others, it's the last thing on their minds busy with their advancing careers until finally wanting one, but being too late. When this happens, IVF, or In Vitro Fertilization, is the go-to medical procedure to better your chances at pregnancy.
    Just like normal pregnancy, IVF is not 100% and can take many tries until you're able to get pregnant. Many times, the procedure does not work, or it does and complications arise from the pregnancy resulting in a failed IVF. It may seem easy to try again, but for some, the mental and physical rollercoaster in being hopeful to have your own child to not can hurt more than coming to terms and realizing, it just wasn't meant to be.
    If you are unable to have your own child, it's okay. You're not alone in this matter and although you may feel like you'll never be a parent, that simply isn't true. Being a parent is much more than just having your own child. A parent is someone who is able to teach, care, and share experiences with a child - whether yours or not. You can always enjoy the company of others' children and become the cool auntie that every child looks forward to.
    For those who feel the same, don't worry. Life works in such mysterious and unknowable ways. At times, we could care less at what's in front of us only to look back and want that now. In the end, enjoying every moment you've been given and appreciating every opportunity we have is the best part of life.
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Komentarze • 2 723

  • GlactiCat
    GlactiCat 4 minut temu

    Why didn't they think about a surrogate? The embryos were viable and the problem was with her body so a surrogate WOULD probably fix it.. Just saying

  • ItsHeily4271
    ItsHeily4271 16 minut temu

    Wow they made this video on my Bday

  • Sarah Sterly
    Sarah Sterly 24 minut temu

    Adopt surrogate I’m just saying there are other options

  • Gacha Darkside!
    Gacha Darkside! 49 minut temu

    She could have adopted..

  • Annie Ryan
    Annie Ryan 51 minuta temu

    Why did u change the title i don’t like this one as much

  • Diana EN
    Diana EN Godzinę temu

    I dont want to have Kids i even dont get a man bc i am too Ugly and focused in other things

  • Bubby Lover12
    Bubby Lover12 2 godzin temu

    I am 16 and I can't have a baby

  • Sophie Roberts Playz
    Sophie Roberts Playz 2 godzin temu

    *AdOpT a ChIlD*

  • CutiePup 6258
    CutiePup 6258 3 godzin temu

    If you want a child, just adopt.......right?

  • meh
    meh 7 godzin temu

    *You can Adopt

  • LDDarkLady
    LDDarkLady 8 godzin temu

    You can go to the adopt center! :D

  • Cookie_Paige XD
    Cookie_Paige XD 9 godzin temu

    U shouldn't be pregnant yet you guys aren't even married its one of your responsibilities

  • Fotis Kokkinos
    Fotis Kokkinos 10 godzin temu

    Why don’t you adopt a kid ????

  • HIdayah Mustapa
    HIdayah Mustapa 10 godzin temu

    You can adopt

  • MisHaGKcV
    MisHaGKcV 14 godzin temu

    This was published on my birthday...

  • WeirdoHasToMuchTime1111 Ish


  • Vanessa Perea
    Vanessa Perea 16 godzin temu

    go for adoption then

  • Allyxoxo Msp
    Allyxoxo Msp 20 godzin temu

    this is so sad :(

  • Simone Krayem
    Simone Krayem 21 godzinę temu +1

    6:23 “the one who doesn’t know how much is too much chocolate cake”
    *draws vanilla*

  • Luakian Dawb
    Luakian Dawb 22 godzin temu

    I don't think that sex is the "natural way" either but you do you.

  • Twilight Rose
    Twilight Rose 22 godzin temu

    You could have adopted a child.💖

  • THE UNKNOW_555
    THE UNKNOW_555 22 godzin temu

    Wait.....why dint they adopted a baby then??

  • Mia Maples
    Mia Maples 22 godzin temu

    Just adopt some kids need love ❤️

  • Shireen Edun
    Shireen Edun 23 godzin temu

    Adoption? Heard of that?
    EDIT: Holy s--- that sounds really rude.. I didn't mean to be rude

  • Random content
    Random content Dzień temu

    Did anyone else notice that they changed the title

  • Janet Perry
    Janet Perry Dzień temu

    Why did u change the title

  • Reese Gray
    Reese Gray Dzień temu

    adopt one

  • Bhianca Bhadie
    Bhianca Bhadie Dzień temu +1

    I was thinking at first she couldve adopted ❤️

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  • Josh Dun
    Josh Dun Dzień temu

    *Says chocolate cake. Draws vanilla*

  • Muna Hassan
    Muna Hassan Dzień temu

    Just adopt a baby

  • Green Kiid
    Green Kiid Dzień temu

    Just.... Adopt a kid then

  • Sonic Screwdriver
    Sonic Screwdriver Dzień temu

    Just adopt

  • Dishy OwO
    Dishy OwO Dzień temu

    Adopt a child! There are millions of young orphans out there that can have the same experiences as your own child 👶😀

  • xflores77
    xflores77 Dzień temu

    *Do it the natural way* hoho man

  • Sub2that channel
    Sub2that channel Dzień temu

    just adopt one duuh

  • Marie Sampson
    Marie Sampson Dzień temu

    I would've said never give up bc my parents tryed to have kids for 6 yrs until they tried IVF, my mum was 45 years old and the odds were low. They failed twice and my mum almost gave up but my dad told her to never give up, so they tried a third time and luckily I grew and was born healthy alongside my twin sister. Never give up.

  • Kittymakkaty 12
    Kittymakkaty 12 Dzień temu

    They changed the title FINALLY!!!

  • Caityotic
    Caityotic Dzień temu +2

    Ladies and Gentlemen... If you never get a child.. NEVER FORGET! You can adopt one. I know it is not the same but it is better than nothing...

  • Pink Future
    Pink Future Dzień temu

    The title changed drastically

  • Midnight Moon
    Midnight Moon Dzień temu

    Speed 25x you will. Die

  • amart furniture
    amart furniture Dzień temu +1

    i’m sorry, but while i do understand that people want their own baby, i don’t understand that if they can’t they don’t adopt or foster? these children have been treated like shit since they were born, why not give them a chance at a better life if you really want to be a mother or have a child.

    BUBBLEPOP BALL Dzień temu +2

    Sooo did she end up getting pregnant or nah

  • whynmy
    whynmy Dzień temu

    I cry son bad😭

  • Booon Noob
    Booon Noob Dzień temu +2

    I guess this only applies to women. Man can still procreate at 70.

  • ItzBlockyTv Network
    ItzBlockyTv Network Dzień temu

    this made my heart break

  • mr. happycat
    mr. happycat Dzień temu

    oh....wow.....more....my fake alarm went off again.....adopt one.....

  • Savage Surgeon
    Savage Surgeon Dzień temu

    Adopt one

  • 5H1R0NA
    5H1R0NA 2 dni temu

    I want children but-
    shit,I don't wanna potty train my child ,_,

  • nora enouali
    nora enouali 2 dni temu

    I'm not crying 😢

  • Tareque Ahmed
    Tareque Ahmed 2 dni temu

    why didn’t you adopt one kid?

  • sour patch kids
    sour patch kids 2 dni temu +1

    Adoption is a option

    PERLA PRADO 2 dni temu

    You can adopt

  • Emma Lud
    Emma Lud 3 dni temu


  • Dear FutureMe
    Dear FutureMe 3 dni temu

    If you were going through all of this, why not adopt instead??

  • Kaala Silvermoon
    Kaala Silvermoon 3 dni temu

    Miscarriage? What is that?

  • Muduwa Husna
    Muduwa Husna 3 dni temu

    I will adopt in future

  • Ariadne Leventi
    Ariadne Leventi 3 dni temu

    Why don’t you adopt a child?

  • AlyssaB
    AlyssaB 3 dni temu +1

    The story is ok but are the shock value titles of these videos really necessary? That statement is just asking for trouble.
    Edit: they changed the title, smart!

  • trisha zxcvbnm
    trisha zxcvbnm 3 dni temu

    why didn't they just adopt a child? i know its not easy because its not ur real child but that woudn't be difficult to think.

  • Ava deerstar
    Ava deerstar 3 dni temu

    ok but at 6:38 I LOVE her shirt and I want it irl

  • Glory Rattle
    Glory Rattle 3 dni temu

    maybe you could adopt a kid??

  • Aisha Ahmad
    Aisha Ahmad 3 dni temu

    :( 😰

  • Amy Musa
    Amy Musa 3 dni temu

    In a way, I'm not interested in kids, I don't think you need to have kids to be happy. I'm 18 and never in my life, I thought kids were something for me. Lol

    • Amy Musa
      Amy Musa Dzień temu

      +iiSnxck RBLX :( hope not, but if I did had kids I want them to have a happy life and, no, wouldn't hate them for anything. Just that having kids is the last thing that's on my mind and I'm not sure if itll change later on but, whatever? Who knows right?

    • iiSnxck RBLX
      iiSnxck RBLX Dzień temu

      Amy Musa i dare you to say this to your kids in the future

  • KpopTheticly
    KpopTheticly 3 dni temu

    Adopt one

  • Ignited twisted Emma the fox

    Don’t be fooled

  • Paska Pasta
    Paska Pasta 3 dni temu

    If yo wanted a kid that bad just adopt one

  • LPS Logic
    LPS Logic 4 dni temu


  • Audrey Edits
    Audrey Edits 4 dni temu

    Why didn't you just adopt?

  • Sphinx Luv Duv Wuv
    Sphinx Luv Duv Wuv 4 dni temu

    wait you where only aloud 3 cycles? Or you could only afford 3? I'm pretty sure the 3 rule is like, per year, some doctors do accidentally mistake it for 3 tries and your out but thats untrue. Some people get it on their 6th or 7th try, and some women get it on their 22nd or 23rd try, and they all had infertility issues (one had IID) and if its because theirs an issue that maes it so the baby can't implant properly why not try surragusy? I only ask because I personally know i'll have to go through with this in the far future, and have done a ridickulous ammount of research for it (my fiance is trans and so we have to freeze sperm which means i've studdied up a hell of alot about this to make sure we deffinently freeze enough to have at least 2 kids) I understand that its hard going through miscarreges and thats why the 3 a year rule exists, so that your body and mind can take a break. Honestly I think you might need to have a talk with your doctor about it if its not a money issue. If it is a money issue I have to say i'm sorry. Thankfully I live in a country where IVF if very succesful and is covered by medicare, and is cheap even without coverage because of how many public IVF hospitals there are competing with the private ones. Also to all those who say adopt, there is quite a few issues that come with that, one, the price for adoption and the adoption process is costly and long, two, even with foster care where its free, theirs a high chance you'll get children with major disobediance issues or even mistrust issues, three, even if you succesfully adopt a child who is a very small child, later on in life there is a very high chance of them searching for their "real parents" and them regarding you as lesser due to you not having any blood relation (it happens alot more than you think) four, if you adopt an older child, like with foster caring there is a high chance of getting very mentally unstable children. I'm not saying you shouldn't adopt, but there are valid reasons not too. Also to those who say having biologically related children is wrong because there are so many parentless kids, stop it. Its not their fault these kids exist, its either idiots who couldn't keep their legs shut or even use protections fualt, yes there are a few kids who's parents tragically died but they arn't as common as youd think. It is a biological and natural urge to have your OWN children, parents and children who are biologically related, on average have a way closer bond than those who arn't, theirs a reason for this. All life exists to create more life, that is lifes funtion. Some people can't have kids naturally but humans (us amazing animals) have used our complex brains and creative skills to overcome such hurdles. And if I or any other person makes the decision WE want our own related children, even though nature says we can't, WE are aloud to make the decision to be "selfish" and go to a doctor to make us a tube baby.

  • Eloise Turner
    Eloise Turner 4 dni temu

    I was born through IVF so was my annoying sister.

  • Maria Phares
    Maria Phares 4 dni temu

    With people saying that they should have adopt (which I think would be great too), it's not that simple. You have to have requirements, money, background check, qualifications etc. It takes years and years. You have to go through a lot and even then, it might not happen. It's not easy. Being a parent has it challenges, even more so with adopted kids. So it's not as simple as people make it out to be. How do I know this? I'm adopted, my sister was adopted and so is my brother. It's a complicated process and long journey but it's worth it. :)
    Edit: I don't think people who want to have bio kids are selfish. I don't think people who don't want kids are selfish. I think everyone should do what makes them happy or at least enjoy the little things in life. :)

  • XxcholeXxgirl Kana
    XxcholeXxgirl Kana 4 dni temu

    Children should be happy btw

    I, not a parent

  • Sophia Guevara
    Sophia Guevara 4 dni temu

    Yo if this was me I would adopt

  • katrin P
    katrin P 4 dni temu

    I'm not crying you are

    REESE STARNES 4 dni temu

    Omg adopt

  • Tigied
    Tigied 4 dni temu

    You could just adopt

  • Cat Gaming
    Cat Gaming 4 dni temu

    One word ADOPTION!!!!!!!! 👶

  • DC trash.
    DC trash. 4 dni temu

    Fostering? Adopting?

  • Kris Zimmerman
    Kris Zimmerman 5 dni temu +1

    Everybody saying it’s so expensive to adopt, 300,000 and such, not true through the foster system. My mom adopted 6. And it’s no more expensive if you can afford IVF. And yes you would feel like it’s your child. I child is yours whether they came out of your stomach, another’s stomach, or a Petri dish. Love is what makes them yours. ❤️

  • starbrite 101
    starbrite 101 5 dni temu

    😢 did anyone else actually cry while watching this video 😭😭😭😢😢😢

  • Billy Bob Joe, The Professional Meme-ist

    That title kills me. This is why we have overpopulation, people insist on following blind biological urges... why, WHY would you create MORE human life when there’s too much already? Because everyone’s only worried about their little corner of the world, _their_ baby/babies won’t be a problem, they’re too small and the world is too big. But when everyone thinks like this, selfishly, it all adds up and we have issues. We even encourage it... we’re just biological machines, this stuff makes that painfully obvious. These machines adapted to circumstances that no longer exist, and thus, unless we use our (fucking limited) capacity to think logically, we’ll destroy ourselves with the same, predictable, mechanical behaviors that allowed us to survive as long as we have in the first place. You can’t win... unless, MAYBE, you start thinking with logic and not emotion. If we did this, we wouldn’t have war. We wouldn’t have overpopulation. We wouldn’t have a whole LOT of dumb shit, and yet here we are, feeling superior to animals that are managing to not slowly kill themselves... I mean come on, how do people not see that animals are capable of being MORE LOGICAL than people -sometimes- and that we’re so predictable, I don’t understand how people can delude themselves with free will... “you need children to be happy”
    Sounds like the POLAR OPPOSITE of free will.
    The irony here, of course, is that this thought and reaction I had was very knee-jerk, based on emotion, _feeling_ pissed off that some people manage to overlook the most obvious stuff about people and the clear lack of free will and why we’re not superior to animals and all this stuff. I, of course, am just a collection of cells, behaving according to basic physics, and there are so many that it’s hard to predict exactly how I’ll behave. But free will? What, does this magical free will make a neuron fire out of the blue? If you ask yourself how free will could possibly work, physically, on a cellular basis, you’ll see that you’re a lot like the weather. Hard to predict, but not impossible (and actually, we can predict people MUCH better than the weather, but we don’t go around saying the atmosphere has a consciousness or a free will....), and made up of small things that don’t have free will, and thus, is a large, complicated work of physics that has no more free will than the sum of its parts. 0+0+0=0. The entire basis we have for free will is that you can feel it. What you feel is a machine doing what it’s gonna do regardless, you experience thinking passively, you have NO SAY in what you think. Thoughts “pop into your head”, right? And that’s supposed to be free will, you not controlling what _you_ think? You are purely a product of genetics and an environment that is inherently out of your control for _several_ years, so if the basis of what you’ve learned is contained within a time period when you had no say over where you lived or who you spent time with (you don’t choose your parents), then everything you are has been formed from factors completely out of your control. So I guess I can’t blame people who go around saying “you need kids to be happy”, they have no bearing over why they think that. Machines. As someone who has clearly accepted this, it’s not that hard. “You” don’t exist. As a matter of fact, you don’t even have to try to accept it, because a biological computer will do it for you. Or maybe it won’t, so don’t feel too bad if you can’t seem to think it through. It’s as much your fault as it is when your phone won’t load something. This turned into a huge rant but idk that’s just the way the mylon (it’s a fatty tissue, not a misspelling of nylon) sheaths over (some of) my neurons guided all the chain-reactions of ion movement, the cells that have been fired more have thicker sheaths and the action potentials travel faster inside those cells, so that the chain reaction moves faster- if a certain cell usually activated another when it fires, that pattern is reinforced, the chain reactions move faster in the specific path of this cell to that cell and so on and so forth, and those cells will impart their chain reactions to cells in my muscles, or maybe just straight into over cell patterns (that’s basically all memory is, if something can get the ball moving, so to speak, on a very specific pattern/pathway (more like a web, I guess, each cell can connect to a gajillion more), that pathway will carry the reaction to another pathway, or straight to muscle or whatever, and you’ll move or think in the same way you used to- and that’s literally just physics. A Rube Goldberg machine. So, don’t take anything too seriously, you’re just genetically designed so that certain pathways fire from birth, like “I don’t enjoy pain”, you’re just coded to care about certain things automatically. None of them actually matter, one day you’ll die and you don’t even care, you just experience a machine “caring”. Jesus this really did turn into a huge ass rant...

    Also, look at one of your fingers and move it.

    Now do it again with this in mind:
    Did “you” move the finger, or did “you” realize that it was being moved, and then reason out why it did that? “Right, well I was just thinking about how I move my fingers, and so naturally that’s why I did it”. When I look at my finger and feel that I’m moving it (hard to tell but I think you realize you’re doing it before it actually moves- it all happens very fast, but my feeling is that the part of the machine that’s going “Right, yes, me, my finger, my body, I control it” registers that one of the other programs started doing something with the finger and it reasons out why that program did that before you’ve even moved (at least, before you’ve moved it a lot). The programs talk directly, so the delay between “I’m moving it” and “huh, I’m moving my finger, what’s up with that?” is so small you can easily ignore it and trick yourself into feeling like you controlled it. No, one of the parts of your brain (I guess many parts in conjunction, really) that isn’t (aren’t) capable of consciousness did something, and the parts that are capable of consciousness got that info. The parts that are capable of consciousness may have fired neural patterns that caused the other part to do this, but that’s not deciding to move the finger, that’s you thinking about something causing your body to physically react. Like a machine that moves based on your daydreaming- you didn’t tell it to do anything, but your thinking caused it to physically react, and then you gotta figure out why it did that, which isn’t too hard and doesn’t take long, and the whole process feels like one motion, but it isn’t, you think in abstracts, running what-ifs in one program, you move, you _then_ realize why you moved. You also predict your movement before you actually move, too, it’s like your consciousness is going “okay, so what if that thing I’m inside of did this? What would happen?” And the non-conscious involuntarily reacts to the outcomes of the what-ifs, which feels like deciding, because only certain things actually happen, you “decide” to not do something, but that’s just the what-if program spitting out a result that doesn’t activate the right patterns, puzzle pieces that don’t fit.

    Moral of the story: neural patterns are based off of blind physics, it just so happens that they react in a way that lets me survive, but just because a bunch of moving things moves in a way so that it keeps itself moving doesn’t mean it knows anything. This entire computer system doesn’t have someone in the back coding it, it just so happens that when matter gathers itself in the shape of neurons, and, collectively, a brain, and a body to go with it, it keeps moving. So there’s no reason to say that our way of thinking can actually produce truths- maybe we’re a large scale version of when you mess up twice during a math question and get it right, all we “know” is that this system keeps itself alive, but that could be a “broken clock right twice a day” thing, maybe gravity doesn’t actually exist, maybe house cats are actually huge, deadly predators that have, purely by chance, never landed a pounce. Maybe the ground is actually molten lava, but by dumb luck, everyone’s been stepping on little rocks and been half a centimeter away from falling in for literally all of history. It’s all just chance, so you can’t claim that you know something when the computer that thought it out is just something that’s managed to somehow not die yet. Our whole way of thinking and experiencing could be ENTIRELY wrong, but if the “real” stuff we can’t experience never interacts with us, even if it brushes by at a hair’s width twice a second, if it just so happens to have always missed _so far_ (maybe the next step will be the first time in human history you step in the lava), being able to experience it wouldn’t help you survive, and only a few people would ever actually experience reality, and if it doesn’t help them survive and reproduce, the population of people who can’t experience reality would always remain way larger, and those who could really see would be considered insane. So next time a schizophrenic says that satan’s standing behind you raising a knife to kill you, consider yourself lucky. They could be right, and this whole time you’ve been unwittingly dodging the swinging knife. Every time you see a quarter on the ground and walk over to pick it up, you might be inadvertently dodging knife murder.

    • AwkwardTwilight Limes
      AwkwardTwilight Limes 2 dni temu

      This is the best Comment in the entirety of PLclip and it’s Systems, I want more people like you to Exist, you’re one of the best collections of Cells on this planet

    • Billy Bob Joe, The Professional Meme-ist
      Billy Bob Joe, The Professional Meme-ist 5 dni temu

      Haha yeah wow that’s a novel right there, damn, screenshot that for your next philosophy course lmao

  • legitfox animations
    legitfox animations 5 dni temu

    I'll never be able to have my own kid because im lesbian. I've never felt close to a boy, and i have a massive crush on another girl. I told her my feelings on monday and she said it was okay (shes pansexual). Im only in 7th grade, so its very stressful. If i ever have kids, i'll adopt. Its easier. Plus, i'll be helping another child in need of a family.

  • The aviation Lover
    The aviation Lover 5 dni temu

    So sad 😞

  • Aquarius
    Aquarius 5 dni temu

    Or, you know, you could've just adopted a child.

  • Hallo the Smolest Creepypasta Bean

    I feel like the title is low-key trying to take a jab at me

  • Mocha Milkshake
    Mocha Milkshake 5 dni temu

    My twin was a miscarriage

    • AwkwardTwilight Limes
      AwkwardTwilight Limes 2 dni temu

      Mocha Milkshake basically your Twin is dead, that’s quite depressing, hope you’re okay

  • Happiness and Art with Andrea Regine

    *Pray to God*

  • Addison Diamondhurricane

    ... Was adoption not an option for them? Like, sure, if you want to have a baby that shares genetic information from you and your partner, go for it. But if it doesn't work and you still want children, why not just adopt a child?

  • dacouch potato
    dacouch potato 6 dni temu

    You could just adopt a baby

  • Crystal BlackHeart
    Crystal BlackHeart 6 dni temu

    You don't need kids to be happy, you need to make yourself happy and not just dump the idea that happiness comes from soneone else who has to complete you. This is selfish and I'm glad that she didn't have a kid or realized that she could adopt. This is a story about a person so ignornat about life that she is complaining that she can't simply have everything she wants the moment she wants it.

  • Laniakea S
    Laniakea S 6 dni temu

    You need a point in your life - children, career, travelling, hobby. Choose for yourself c8

  • Cheese Cake
    Cheese Cake 7 dni temu +1


  • Sir Overlord
    Sir Overlord 7 dni temu

    if they wanted a kid so badly why didn't they just adopt a kid?

  • Fruits YT
    Fruits YT 7 dni temu

    Is it just me or does it say "boyfriend" not "husband"

  • UnKoWn UsEeRnAmE
    UnKoWn UsEeRnAmE 7 dni temu

    easiest way to have a kid adopt one

  • MerKitten Ash
    MerKitten Ash 7 dni temu +1

    You can just adopt newborn babies. But okay, you want to be a brat saying," I wanted to experience the journey from start to finish" THATS WHAT THEY HAVE AN ADOPTION CENTER, DOING THAT WILL ALSO BENEFIT THE ADULTS SENDING CHILDREN THERE BECAUSE THEY ARE EITHER UNPREPARED, WENT TO JAIL, OR EVEN THEY DIDNT WANT THE BABY.

  • How do people make up Good memes?


    just adopt.

  • Pandora’s Box
    Pandora’s Box 7 dni temu +1

    BUT What about adoption yeah you can’t physically of children but you can still have kids just buy adoption

  • Abigail O’Connell
    Abigail O’Connell 8 dni temu

    I’d rather shove a red hot poker in my eye than have children