People Come Into Our Life For 3 Reasons | by Jay Shetty

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    Video Inspired by Kate Windebank's Article "The Three Reasons People Come Into Our Lives"
    Credit for Quotes
    “Never forget the person who was there for you when no one else was” - Unknown

Komentarze • 2 599

  • Michael
    Michael 5 godzin temu

    Surrounded by people yet I don't feel any deep connection with any of them. Except my cats. Truly they keep me planted on this Earth.

  • Billy Wylie
    Billy Wylie Dzień temu

    I fell 38 feet from a job related accident.Its crazy how my wife of 13 years divorced me once my income significantly decreased.The divorce and loss of both of my kids in a custody battle was the hardest life hit me in the mouth.Absolutely nobody was there to help me from the accident and divorce.I realized ASAP that it was all up to me only to get my life back on track.Fast forward two years later I’ve made a complete recovery,make more money than I ever had. Now all the people I knew who didn’t help me all of the sudden want to come into my life.I dropped all those people fast.Im single,starting to date again and never felt this free and happy in my life.Since I’ve gained success I still reach back to pull someone up who needs it.

  • Locie Ybanez
    Locie Ybanez Dzień temu


  • Rooster1508
    Rooster1508 2 dni temu

    How many people do you know that you can call in the middle of the night because you ran out of gas? That's how many friends you have.

  • Jacqueline Creatrix
    Jacqueline Creatrix 2 dni temu

    That's great, but what if the answer is nobody

  • Marc Padilla
    Marc Padilla 2 dni temu

    What bullshit.

  • Deep Ghosh Chowdhury


    #FLYING HIGH 4 dni temu +2

    Hey just being honest, you are making people believe that your words are 100% sure..And some really trust you blindly.But in the end situation do matters...

  • AnAmericanMan
    AnAmericanMan 5 dni temu

    She is still gorgeous.

  • nikhil siddardha
    nikhil siddardha 6 dni temu

    I think the worst thing about ourselves is that we try to seek sympathy and expect love from others instead of standing up for ourselves

  • ro se
    ro se 9 dni temu

    This is it second part I ve been looking for this for almost a year

  • Dulles 1975
    Dulles 1975 12 dni temu

    I hate when people come for a season... 😢😢

  • Lucian Playz
    Lucian Playz 14 dni temu

    Im one of those who comes for a life time! Im often not seen but i am always there people only see me when there through tough times and im the one who helps them through! Butafter that im forgot so i often leave them...when there going through tough times again than they learn that they shouldnt have forgot me...they come and say sorry to me...but they broke my heart! They broke my i cant forgive them...and thats how i broke alot of people...

  • MysticZ
    MysticZ 14 dni temu

    No one has been there for me....

  • Me myself
    Me myself 14 dni temu

    Yes, someone came to my life to help me realize something without i know until one day, he i missed him so much but nothing else i can do right...😔😔😔😔

  • Beta Kalsoo
    Beta Kalsoo 14 dni temu

    I found.... its just my mother no one else :-[ even I was always their for every one but no one care"s for u like your mom

  • Abdul Aziz
    Abdul Aziz 15 dni temu

    Really i have learned a great lesson from this i have been in a relationship for over six years now. He always come to help me with my difficult but now we are not communicating people said we should break up with him but i still love him. Because he always come to me when i need help

  • Tyrone norfleet Norfleet

    You will be SURPRISED who yr REAL FRIENDS ARE.

  • Prachi Jasrotia
    Prachi Jasrotia 18 dni temu

    Only my family stood with me in every hard phase

  • Jesus Holy
    Jesus Holy 19 dni temu

    This is just fantastic!!💕💕

  • Grehan Perera
    Grehan Perera 19 dni temu

    I had no one like that..😞

  • Christopher Obando
    Christopher Obando 19 dni temu

    Just don't let anyone in your life. Acquaintances are better. No friends nor family

  • Niharika A
    Niharika A 21 dzień temu

    It's right sir

  • Traceyann Thomas
    Traceyann Thomas 21 dzień temu +1

    Tell that to my ungrateful x boyfriend.

  • Doctor2k Green
    Doctor2k Green 21 dzień temu

    Anybody need real friends 💯💯💯

  • Marc Kenn Morales
    Marc Kenn Morales 22 dni temu


  • LeLe funny Video
    LeLe funny Video 22 dni temu

    it's a really great work

  • Phila Art
    Phila Art 22 dni temu

    My mom is always the first one who'll be there when I need help or in trouble.💖

  • snowman c
    snowman c 23 dni temu

    I've always been alone , even in a crowded room, I've been alone... I can't seem to form a connection or hood a conversation with anyone.. to be honest, in my darkest times, I've always been alone.

  • Yaver Ali
    Yaver Ali 24 dni temu

    You Are Great I have no word
    I'm A Nothing person
    I don't know

  • Neha Agrawal
    Neha Agrawal 24 dni temu +1

    People come into your life for 3 reason
    1. Season ( for a limited time )
    2. Reason ( their is something which they want that's a reason)
    3. Lifetime (forever)

  • Darren Boston
    Darren Boston 24 dni temu +3

    To borrow money!
    To make themselves look good!
    To steal your Mrs!

  • sourav pradhan
    sourav pradhan 25 dni temu


  • Anonymouse 777
    Anonymouse 777 25 dni temu

    This is a powerful video, definitely has a message that I want to remind myself of everyday, there have definitely been times that I got so caught up in people that don’t want me that I forgot about the people that do really care about me. It’s sad but by the time a lot of ppl realize this it’s too late. I don’t want that to happen to me or anyone else. Pay attention to the people who truly pay attention to you, because if not, you’ll only understand their importance when they’re gone.

  • Fire Dragon
    Fire Dragon 26 dni temu

    I have three best friends who have always been there for me... My Mum, My Bro and my BFF(She is so amazing and inspiring)🥰
    I love all of them💜

  • Virginia Addis
    Virginia Addis 27 dni temu +1

    No depending on where we live eeee we pick our friends treat all this shit as entertainment... lot of manipulation.

    • Virginia Addis
      Virginia Addis 27 dni temu +1

      Entertainment esp. Meditations...

    • Virginia Addis
      Virginia Addis 27 dni temu +1

      And dont take advice from anyone satan bug no joke..follow the money trail life not negative by NATURE so bullshit all around i never charge...

  • tranquility
    tranquility 28 dni temu

    I've had strangers in the store be more loving to me than ppl I have known my entire life.

  • Ben Lamia
    Ben Lamia 29 dni temu

    My sister god bless her

  • Aathira Thampi
    Aathira Thampi 29 dni temu

    than was ....🤐

  • Corazon Külbs
    Corazon Külbs 29 dni temu +21

    Dont worry of being alone. The one who walks alone have the strongest directions... and learn to lean on God🙏🏽

    • Ahmd Ebrahem
      Ahmd Ebrahem 6 dni temu

      Comment from your higher self .. loved your positive mindset and I took it as a quote in my notes

  • Sahil Phallle
    Sahil Phallle 29 dni temu +2

    What if ur partner was with u in bad times but ur on long distance relationship but now I having stable mode in life but my partner is busy with her stuff & not giving u attention like past . We barely talk for 10 to 20 minutes
    & Meeting is also hard because of issue
    What should I do I am suffering this problem from last 2 months
    It's feels like our relationship is not working but we don't want broke it
    What Should I do?

  • Carolyn Reynolds
    Carolyn Reynolds 29 dni temu +4

    I haven't met any real people in a long time. Their are a lot of devious, evil, wicked beings on this Earth. All ages, religions, political affiliations, gender, nationalities.
    Most people I wished I had never met

    • hjs2457
      hjs2457 24 dni temu

      emotionally unhealthy people are attracted to emotionally unhealthy people and vice versa. work on becoming more emotionally healthy. and after all of your experiences you will learn to spot emotionally unhealthy people. stay away from them. they live in their own reality.

  • Darlyn Bejasa
    Darlyn Bejasa Miesiąc temu +1

    My favorite philosopher 💕

  • Gail Angelica
    Gail Angelica Miesiąc temu

    Lifetime - definitely my mom🌷

  • kjh lk
    kjh lk Miesiąc temu

    Jay SHetty this is not a complete video. As a person who was recently attacked by two people in front of my building. A man and a woman. By the good grace of GOD I was able to fight my attacker who called in for a third person just because I asked the to get off the steps of my property. The cops showed up just as the third person arrived. The worse thing you can say to a victim of violence is PLEASE BE CAREFUL I just want to yell SHUT UP. JUST SHUT UP. NEVER EVER TELL THEM HOW STRONG YOU ARE AND HOW YOU CAN FIGHT ATTACKERS unless you are a trained professional. OR tell your story on how you beat the crap out of someone. NEVER EVER make comments that will elevate yourself over the victim and make it about you. JUST SHUT UP AND say I am sorry this happened to you. THAT IS IT. This is why victims do not want to speak with anyone. Too much judging. Jay Shetty should put out a video that tells people what you should not do when a person is a victim of a crime. If a person rejects you just say I am not here to judge you but just support you. You can say i am sorry this happen to you. Offer to help look for self defense class if they are interested or even a support group. I would never ever tell a person that I am worried about them. We are all adults. Instead I say if you ever just need a friend to talk to or you just want me to listen I am here. NO JUDGEMENTS. I am here for you and the only thing I can give you is my LOVE that is it. The door is open. STOP making it about you. IT is not about you it is about the victim. That is why we seclude ourselves 99% of the time you will make it about YOU.

  • Lisa Gardner
    Lisa Gardner Miesiąc temu

    This blew me away, I had season friends and learnt that they were there only for them not for me! However I’m blessed through love and know know who is my season, my reason, and who is there for a life time! Beautifully said very profound, I know who has been there for me and as they shielded me from pain I’ll embrace them in love. May the light of love travel through everyone of us and may we all unite in love and life. Thank you Jay for such an amazing explanation it’s been a real eye opener, blessing and love to your beautiful wife, I don’t know what I’d do without you guys? You both have inspired me so much I’m very grateful that I found you guys, keep shining.

  • sonuttl 772
    sonuttl 772 Miesiąc temu

    It's happening with like this already long time ago already

  • Carl Snell
    Carl Snell Miesiąc temu

    So true but it still sad😥

  • Schello Zee
    Schello Zee Miesiąc temu

    i have a lot of friends but,only a few of them is like a root to me.the others only just like a leaves & a branches.Nothing stays forever.sometimes,having so many friends is also pointless.

  • Atiqur Rahman
    Atiqur Rahman Miesiąc temu

    It is a stark reality that after God only parents are there for you.. Rest all relations are reason, season, and selfish.. In true sense Nobody cares..

  • Nagaraj Acharya
    Nagaraj Acharya Miesiąc temu +1

    Fk f relationship.. U came alone n u will go alone.. Fake ppls..

  • carol long
    carol long Miesiąc temu

    I have friends thats needs something from so i don't to them anymore and i been single for 6 years cause all the man out there wants to talk about sex and i want a good man that don't have that on the mind so you can't trust any man at all

  • first name last name
    first name last name Miesiąc temu

    Can i change human nature?

  • Joyce Poe
    Joyce Poe Miesiąc temu

    A beautiful story Jay.

    JOE SINGH Miesiąc temu

    I really enjoy your videos, message, content and the benefit of the the narratives and lessons contained within. I am struggling with the delivery though Jay. The sentimental piano pieces that accompany seem only to diminish the impact of the video by trying to create state of romanticism , which underplays the simple strength and message of the lesson. If a soundtrack is preferred, may i suggest something that intends to be less direct, less poignant and less familiar ? Let the video content do its good work x

  • sneha paul
    sneha paul Miesiąc temu

    That was my parents

  • Avantika Pathania
    Avantika Pathania Miesiąc temu +1

    "Often we give love to a certain people and that love comes back to us if not through those same people"
    "People come into our lives for three things - a season , a reason and a lifetime"
    "Often we feel we care more about people than we care for us, we're just looking at the wrong people."

  • avi mae
    avi mae Miesiąc temu

    I have also learned that this includes family members and your children.

  • Ahilova peta
    Ahilova peta Miesiąc temu


  • Samarth D.S
    Samarth D.S Miesiąc temu

    Awesome, truth.
    Some people only think about themselves were proved in this video